The Ransom Way

 Today reminded me of something I have written about before: getting started is often half the battle. This morning, I woke up at 3:00 a.m. I didn't stay up, but I never felt like I got a full night's sleep. By the time I got up for the day, I knew I needed to work on a project, but I kept putting it off. The interesting thing was that I wasn't really procrastinating in the traditional sense. I wasn't scrolling social media for hours. I wasn't watching television. In fact, I was productive. I planned meals, ordered groceries, washed and conditioned my hair, finished laundry, and worked through several things that needed my attention. That got me thinking. If I was willing to think about groceries, recipes, and everything else on my to-do list, why was I struggling to start the one project I actually wanted to complete? After some reflection, I realized the issue wasn't that I didn't want to work. It was that I didn't want to concentrate. ...

 Over the years, I’ve learned something important about productivity: Most people think productive people are simply more disciplined. I don’t think that’s true. As someone who went to law school with two small children while working 30 hours a week — and still excelled academically — I learned early on that productivity isn’t just about motivation. Later, I balanced a full-time job, children’s activities, and a side hustle at the same time for nearly 20 years. So no, I don’t believe productivity comes from being perfectly self-disciplined or overly motivated. I believe it comes from having systems that help you keep going even when life gets busy, motivation fades, or your brain feels overloaded. And honestly, I’ve learned that I’m more productive when the system is simple. 1. Planning & Organizing Keeps Me Productive One of the biggest things I’ve learned is that trying to keep everything in my head drains me mentally. Writing things down does more than crea...

 For years, I told myself that deadlines were what kept me productive. And to be fair, deadlines do motivate me. I like structure. I like knowing something is due. I like external accountability. In fact, I’ve learned that I function much better when someone is expecting something from me versus relying only on self-discipline. But recently, I realized something surprising about myself: It was never just the deadline. I’ve worked in very different environments over the years, and each one affected my motivation differently. In one environment, I had clear deadlines, meaningful work, intellectual stimulation, and a direct connection between finishing the project and getting paid. I also felt like my work mattered and made a difference. Missing deadlines could impact future opportunities, and finishing projects created a strong sense of completion and reward. But there was something else that mattered too: Expectations. It mattered to me that I met the deadline. I...

 For as long as I can remember, writing has been one of the most natural ways for me to process life. Even before I ever thought about spiritual transformation, I journaled. I wrote when I was overwhelmed. I wrote when I was upset. I wrote when I needed understanding. I wrote when my thoughts felt too heavy to carry around in my head. Writing has always been part of who I am. Over the last couple of years though, journaling became something deeper. It became one of the most consistent ways I talk to God. Years ago, God told me I would be a woman of great faith. Then in 2021, I felt Him impress something else on my spirit: stop saying you are going to be and start saying you are. That changed something in me. The transformation didn’t happen overnight, but through reflection, prayer, writing, and learning to slow down enough to truly process what was happening inside of me, my perspective started changing. One thing that surprised me was how much journaling wit...

 If I had to pick one thing that made the biggest difference in my productivity, it wouldn’t be a planner, a course, or a strategy. Now—of course those things help. A good planner and a solid strategy matter. But none of that works if you don’t start . And for me, the thing that gets me started—every single time—is a timer. Getting Started Is Half the Battle Most days, the hardest part isn’t the work itself. It’s starting. You sit down, you know what you need to do… and you just don’t feel like it. Or it feels too big. Or you think you need more time than you actually have. That’s where I used to get stuck. Now, I don’t overthink it. I set a timer. My “I Don’t Feel Like It” System When I don’t feel like working, I’ll set the timer for 10–15 minutes. That’s it. Not an hour. Not “until it’s done.” Just 10–15 minutes to get started. Because almost anyone can do something for 10 minutes. And once I start, one of two things happens: I stop after ...

  How I turned a frustrating, wasted morning into a better money strategy RECOMMENDED The Planner I Recommend A simple planner to help you stay focused, organized, and more intentional with your time. View on Amazon As an Amazon Associate, I may earn from qualifying purchases. Disclosure: This article contains affiliate links. This means I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my links, at no additional cost to you. Today didn’t go as planned. An immigration hearing I had scheduled— was cancelled the same day. No notice. I sat there and waited for an hour… for nothing. And while that might seem small— it’s not. Because I learned a long time ago: Time is valuable. And once it’s gone, it’s gone. It Wasn’t Just the Hour It wasn’t just the hour I spent waiting. I had already prepped for the hearing. Reviewed the file. Spent time getting ready. So when it didn’t happen— that wasn’t just an h...

  For a long time, I thought something was wrong with me. I couldn’t “balance” my days the way I thought I should. I strived for work-life balance—or even work-work balance. That never quite clicked for me. It wasn’t that I was doing everything at once and feeling scattered all the time… It was more that I didn’t know how to do it all. I was inconsistent. But when I did sit down to do something, it got my full attention. And I did feel like I accomplished something—just not everything. So I kept chasing balance, thinking I just hadn’t figured it out yet. But recently, I realized something: I’m not wired for balance. I’m wired for focus. And once I stopped trying to force balance… what naturally happened was what I call structured imbalance . What Is Structured Imbalance? Structured imbalance is exactly what it sounds like. It’s not chaos. It’s not neglecting responsibilities. It’s intentionally focusing on one priority at a time—while trusting the str...